My answer is no i can only base my answer off how i would feel and the fact that i would want to know. Wang and her family kept a huge secret from her grandmother and i think they all underestimated her and her strength if they would of told her she could of did things she always wanted to do like a bucket list instead of not knowing and living the remainder of her life like there was a tomorrow wasting time when when it was secretly running out. i understand she had been previously diagnosed with a life threatening disease get her breast removed and hide it for nine years and go on with your life as a survivor just to die and not even see it coming just seems cruel. I think her continued life after the diagnoses could of had something to to with a lot of things it could of really been the medicine it could of been her going to the temple or even her daily video calls with Wang whatever the reason shes stronger than her family knew and i think she could of handled the truth and the outcome would of been the same but to keep a secret of this magnitude secret especially from the person it would effect the most is wrong the whole family got to say their goodbyes but deprived their grandmother of that opportunity she cant give her last words of wisdom her last hug get all the secrets off her chest because apparently this family has a lot i just believe she should have a say on how her finale days are spent weather she has three month three years or three hours its her time!.
When have you made an important choice to tell someone a difficult truth or you made an important choice to tell a lie that had a major impact on you and/or someone else? I"m sure by now many of you know i have two daughters a eight year old Charm and a almost one year old Faith. My oldest daughter Charm her father is very absent disappears for months at a time doesn't call and just pops in and out her life whenever he feels to the point my daughter no longer recognizes his voice. The problem i have is i believe a child should have stability parents who are there and that they can depend on i received a phone call after months of no communication saying my daughters father is in prison no i don't feel sorry for him and no i don't think its a good enough reason to miss months of communication with your child and me being a parent i don't want to expose my daughter to certain things so i did not tell her her father was in jail and if she happens to ask which is a rare occasion i tell her he has to work and on her birthday which was a week ago she asked him to attend her birthday party which i knew was impossible i let her wait a little while then i received a "Phone Call" saying he was stuck at work and even went as far as giving a gift that was from him. I am a strong believer of just ripping the band aid off but how do you hurt your child how do you tell them the person that's supposed to love them the most chose partying girls and basketball over their school uniform or winter jacket, Christmas,birthday the list on so for this specific topic i choose to continue to lie and protect my child because as a parent that's my only job.
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Sabatino
2/13/2018 09:52:28 am
Thanks for sharing this thoughtful and personal post. Your argumentative response provides a clear position and specific support. Your narrative response explores a difficult part of your life and a difficult decision you had to make. Do you think this narrative topic -- or something close to this topic -- will serve as the topic for your life-choice memoir?
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